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New Mexico author Jean Stouffer<\/strong> has written a moving memoir of healing from the effects of growing up with an alcoholic mother.<\/p>\n

But Sometimes I Cry<\/em> is not just another recounting of a child caring for an absent parent and the self-esteem and abandonment issues that ensue. This memoir uses personal history, myth, and poetry to convey her journey from a traditional wife and mother who could not express herself to a woman who speaks her truth and accepts how she feels.<\/p>\n

She tells her story in short chapters organized into five sections as she works with a therapist to unblock her emotions and uncover her true self.<\/p>\n

Most sections are told in the third person, from the point of view of many charming fictional creatures\u2014mouse, cloud, stone, owl, baby bird, beaver\u2014who stand in for the author. Only the sections about her beloved dog, Molly, are conveyed in the first person. They are among the most moving accounts in the book.<\/p>\n

She also gives the reader short progress reports in the third person, which tie together the fictional and poetic chapters.<\/p>\n

When I asked about that choice, Jean said that writing in the first person was too painful. Her fictional characters conveyed her meaning and gave her the distance she needed to write about her experiences and process.<\/p>\n

Jean did not publish this book for thirty years. Jean said she wrote it for herself, to process what she was feeling, and, at the time, never considered publication. Years later, a friend read the manuscript and encouraged her to put her story into the world. Sometimes I Cry<\/em> came out in 2021.<\/p>\n

\u201cWriting the book changed me,\u201d Jean said recently during a phone conversation. \u201cIt improved my relationship with my husband and helped me realize I had value beyond my traditional roles. After that, I became a hypnotherapist and got a lot of satisfaction using my skills to help people through difficult times. Going through the healing process and writing about it helped me understand that it is okay to have emotions, to be an independent person with my own feelings and goals.\u201d<\/p>\n

I asked Jean what she hoped readers would get from her book.<\/p>\n

\u201cHope,\u201d she answered. \u201cMaybe my story can encourage others. Facing the darkness isn\u2019t easy, but it\u2019s worth it. I ended up a much happier person. A stronger person who could offer my gifts without losing myself.\u201d<\/p>\n

You can purchase Sometimes I Cry<\/em> in paperback and e-book formats at Amazon.<\/p>\n

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You can reach Jean at www.JeanStouffer.com<\/a><\/p>\n

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