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Yes, we love the holidays. Family, food, out of town guests, parties, long lunches, shopping, and evergreen trees in the living room. Of course we do. But it can be overwhelming. Too much family, food, guests, parties, lunches, and shopping. What happened to the tree? Is it still tied to the roof of the car?<\/p>\n
When November arrives, we go on alert. The pumpkin is still sagging on the porch when it\u2019s time to plan the Thanksgiving guest list and find the perfect tree. We have to do it all on top of our regular jobs, family responsibilities, and creative work. And guess what? Sometimes we can\u2019t.<\/p>\n
The best response to overwhelm is to back off. Let something go. Scratch a few items off that to-do list. Decline an invitation or two.<\/p>\n
Failing that, here are some simple methods to relieve holiday tension. They don’t require long periods of time, gym memberships, or complicated shoes. When you feel overwhelmed, out of sorts, pressed for time, or frustrated, try one of these exercises.<\/p>\n
Remember to breathe<\/strong>. Nice and deep. In through your nose. Out through your mouth. Bring the air all the way into your body. Imagine it as golden light filling your organs, spreading through every muscle, nerve, and tendon. Release your breath as golden energy out your hands and feet. Do this for five minutes.<\/p>\n Go outside.<\/strong> Stand or sit and observe what you see. A tree. A patch of grass. A squirrel. Your neighbor\u2019s dog chasing the squirrel.The FedEx truck parked down the block. Stars shining through the bare branches of a cottonwood tree. Do nothing but observe your world for five minutes. (Can be combined with deep breathing.)<\/p>\n Remember who and what you love.<\/strong>\u00a0 People, animals, places. Ideas, books, that action movie you saw last week. Bring your attention to your chest at the level of your heart as you remember how good it feels to care about someone or something besides yourself.<\/p>\n Mentally step back. <\/strong>\u00a0If you\u2019re judging yourself or another, stop. Notice that everyone is doing their best with the resources they have. Forgive yourself. Forgive them. Notice that you may not have the whole story about why people act the way they do. You may never have it. Forgive them anyway.<\/p>\n Laugh at yourself.<\/strong> It\u2019s the holidays and you\u2019re the only one who can make them great.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n What are your tips for decompressing?\u00a0 What can you add to my list?\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Yes, we love the holidays. Family, food, out of town guests, parties, long lunches, shopping, and evergreen trees in the living room. Of course we do. But it can be overwhelming.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[133,137],"tags":[152,155,163],"class_list":["post-1741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-healing","category-resistance","tag-healing","tag-holiday-stress","tag-reduce-stress"],"yoast_head":"\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/awritersheart.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/christmas-2016-300x200.jpg\")
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